HEART'S VOICE OF A MEN

 Hi,

I am the heart of a men or of a boy of  this extra matriarchy(female domination) society, It is always told and shown that this society is patriarchy(male dominant) but the time has changed before making a decision about a men that he is definitely  wrong if he is involved with a conflict with a women as this made a mind that women are innocent and men perverts ,dirty minded, fake faced who are dominating women but real truth is something else.

"I THE HEART OF A MEN ", 

I kept silent for years but today I will speak , I have many pains inside me which are force fully kept by this men in me ,when I was a child it was told to me that "MEN'S DON'T CRY"  but this is not the real truth a men also cries ,weeps and also feels pain as we too are human beings .When we were born we are imposed of hopes of family ,when we grew a little bulk of books are imposed into our heads ,we are treated with  very love and care  and when we become little naughty we are also punished but when tried to cry it is told you can't cry as you are a boy .Our tears are locket into our eyes our feeling are suppressed into our hearts , skills are judged just by our marks and our  standard is judged on our clothes ,our power is just measured but your arms and our beauty is judged by our  face . In our failures people laugh on us and on our success people give it a tag of luck, our love is called nonsense and our deeds or decisions are called as madness, when we lost love alcohol is handed to us and our half love is tagged as madness , our feelings are choked  by society and our emotions are hanged ,And easily it is said that you are boy you should not broke like this ,our ambitions are crushed under responsibilities and easily we are tagged as non ambitious and when we tried to cry it is said you can't cry because you are a boy.                                                                                                                                                                            And  I  just wanna ask why a men cannot cry as just because some one said that "men didn't feel pain" or just because some people believe that crying is a sign of loser or only girls and women can cry, why our masculinity is judged when we cry . why we cannot cry ,I the heart of men will tell you the real truth that we I cry ,when we were born we born crying ,when we grow a little we cry to go to mother's lap ,a little after we cry not to go school ,a little after when teacher punishes  then we cry, we cry for chocolates and toys ,when our father punishes us then we cry ,in collage we cry for gym to build body ,then after that we cry for a girl ,if we didn't got a girl we cry if we got a girl we will definitely cry ,if our marriage is not happening then we cry if happened we will cry for life ,if didn't got a kid we cry for it ,if got a kid we cry by his expenses  when we grew old we cry ,we  cry by diseases we cry by pain ,we cry before death and left every one crying after death, "IF EVERY CRY IS JUST OF CRYING SO WHY SHOULD A MEN CAN'T CRY"

FAKE FEMINISM OF THE SOCIETY;                                                                                                      As nowadays several cases are coming in which a women/girl using people's faith and slapping and blaming wrong to innocent boys and just because they are girls they are getting sympathy too by the society but it is wrong we cheer and advertise feminism all over but feminism does not means dominating me or treating me inferior by the government there are rules that men and women are equal so why they are treated with respect and we are proved wrong always even we are right just because she is girl , No that's not fair ,Looking at some recent cases as in Lucknow a girl was crossing zebra crossing a cab coming in  speed during green signal stop in front of her so she started slapping the cab driver broke his phone  too and police officer near was just looking and passing by the girl is severely misbehaving but no one came forward to help she slapped 22 slaps to the innocent cab driver even the cab just not even touched her and when the police arrived the registered the case against  cab driver  itself means a girl can never be wrong according to cops too ,the closed cab driver behind the bars for the whole night and when the girl was asked by media about the incident she started making non believable stories showing some fake marks ,but it is not the matter the matter is why in the eyes of cops and society he is wrong even he was a victim ,if there was no CCTV footage so we were now itself believing  that cab driver was wrong ,not only this several fake rap cases are registered too in which girl due to any revenge places a fake complain against a boy and he is treated as a criminal and if found not guilty left but no case is registered  against a girl but no one  know after that the boy is been severely neglected by society and people around him for a cause he even did not did even.

"ITS TRUE THAT SOME MEN ILLTREAT WOMEN BUT ALL THE MEN ARE NOT SAME AND THAT'S ALSO SO TRUE THAT ALL GIRLS ARE NOT INNOCENT"

"EVERY WOMEN DESERVE A MEN TO RESPECT HER AND EVERY MEN DESERVES A WOMEN WHO APPRECIATE HIS  EFFORTS"